If you think that ppl change your kidding yourself. If you got involved with someone under the false hope of changing them, then your just gullible or worse, a raving idiot. In my personal experience, this is a false hope for many out there. Whether its' a friend a spouse or even a bf/gf.
It's truly sad that we must submit to this notion of unchanging, but lets face it. This person has probably had these same bad habits and quirks for many many years. Dont think that you'll change them. Geesh, maybe they dont agree that there is a problem, houston. Maybe they recognize the malfunction and refuse to change.
My advise is, dont think that you can change someone. It never works. If you are a glutton for punishment then be my guest and keep on keeping on. Try your little heart out, but in the end you will come crwling back to this post and recognize this for what it is.
THE PLAIN TRUTH.
BB
If it isn't what you want from the get-go, don't take up the foolish notion that you can skew a lifetime of habit, and personality.